*Flashback Friday*
*This post originally appeared on The PediaBlog on September 30, 2016. Your Kids Are Watching You In a fascinating article in this month’s Pediatric News , pediatrician Barbara J. Howard uses evolutionary principles to explain why “do as I say, not as I do” is not an effective parental strategy: We have not evolved that far from our nonverbal ancestors to expect that words will speak louder than actions. Looking closely, you can see even very young infants gazing closely at their parents, then mirroring their facial expressions a few minutes later (because of slower processing). Mirroring is probably the correct word for this as the mirror neuron system of the brain has as its primary and crucial function allowing humans to copy what they see in others. Children look to model, especially those who are slightly older and more adept than they are. Older siblings bask in this adoration at times and squeal in frustration at other times that their ...